Mistress Redfire

Why Mistress Redfire?

Why do I do what I do? What do I do? What makes me different? Why do people come kneeling at my feet, begging for my services? Even more so, why do they come back?

I could give you the obvious answer and simply say that I am a beautiful, Dominant Mistress. Or I could give you a lame response and say it's because I'm the best! (Did that make you laugh, because I couldn't even type it without cracking a smile!) But, rather than give you what I'm sure you've heard before, on many occassions, I'm going to give you a more indepth response.

After all... you really do want to know, don't you?

Let me tell you who I am. I am Mistress Redfire. No, that does not mean when I was born, my parents took one look at the red hair I was born with, said "For the love of heaven, we're in trouble!" And named me Redfire. Though, they may as well have for it certainly does suit my personality! It is merely a pseudonym chosen for my professional identity.

How I got into doing this was completely by accident. Like many of you, years ago I just happened to come across some kinky websites one day when I was online looking for ways to improve my sex life. Yeah, hard to believe but once upon a time I was a shy, insecure little thing who didn't have the first clue about... well, anything! Amazing what happens when you take a sheltered girl and open her up to the world! It's just like I tell others - we all have to start somewhere.

For me, the knowledge spread like a wildfire. The more I learned, the deeper I went. Knowledge turned into experimenting, and that lead to the lifestyle scene. Crash course in BDSM 101? Confide in a friend you've known for years that you're experimenting with kink and find out that he's been a lifestyle Dom for 10 years!

From there, I learned hands-on, and still kept up with doing online research and talking to anyone and everyone who would let me disect their brains. I have always said that before you can ever truly learn something, you must first learn to understand it.

Unfortunately, I discovered there was alot of bad information out there, scattered tid-bits here and there, and conflicting data all over the map! This group insisted that their way was the only way to do it, that person refused to share anything because it was all "trade secrets" and that community refused to even recognize someone into their rankings or take them seriously unless they'd been in the lifestyle for a minimum of so-and-so time.

Are you kidding me?! Now, let's take a fiesty redhead who's taken the time to not only understand the nature of the beast, but fully believes the credo of "To each their own." These people were telling me that there's this entire lifestyle, a whole underground world dedicated to being exactly who, what you want, and need to be... But only if you play by their rules?

Sorry, but that wasn't going to fly in my book! By this point, it'd been nearly two years for me, and I had an entire collection of references, notes taken by my own hard work, and my own experiences. I decided to play by my own rules. After all, it's in my nature to cut my own path, now isn't it?

And I've been doing it ever since. Following and even writing my own rule book. I can't say I'm overly popular with the local community because of it. In fact, truth be known, there are those who don't like me at all! And that's just fine with me! They can have their cookie-cutter ways.

My book says that nothing is right or wrong; it's whether it's right or wrong for you!

I am a Professional Domina (A Mistress, a FemmeDomme, a Dominatrix - Pick your term!) who knows and understands that Domination and submission are not just something that someone does to get off on. It is a need that runs down to the core of someone's being. It is a part of their essence. It's a natural extension of who and what they are.

People come to me because I do not just provide play sessions where they can get off on whatever kinks or quirks they fancy or are curious about. They kneel before me because I give them what they need... The emotional aspect of servitude, of submitting and pleasing. The emotional release that's been lacking for them.

Anyone can go into a bedroom and be kinky. But not everyone understands the intricacy behind the mental aspects of the BDSM and D/s lifestyle.

Straight Talk

A little Straight Talk...

Why would a Professional Domina have a blog full of toys, lingerie, books, and other various products and links?


That's an excellent question, and I'm certainly glad you asked! Ok, so maybe you didn't propose the query, but I'm going to give it to you anyway. And, since this is my blog, I get to do anything I so please. Like it or not! Well, I suppose you could leave, but aren't you the least bit curious?


So here it is... Answer.


No, seriously. The answer is to the question literally is answer! Confused yet? Good! Let me explain.


How many times have you talked to someone about something, and then went "Huh?? What ARE they talking about?" 


Or... "Ok, that's cool! But, where can I learn more?" 


And my personal favorite... "I want to try that! Where can I get one?"


Then you have to pull up the imfamous Google (or whatever search engine you prefer) and go cruising to and try to find the.... what ladies and gentlemen? That's right! The answer! 


So, me being the wonderfully brilliant and resourceful Domina that I am (yes, it's ok to thank me), took it upon myself to spend the time to not only provide you with my personal blog, but also the answers to so many of the common BDSM and D/s subjects and references that you may encounter along the way.


You're welcome, and enjoy!

Helpful Literature and Products

From time to time, I will be inspired by some of these items and use them in my stories, or I may give you ideas and suggestions on alternative uses that come to mind or that I, myself, have encountered over the years. Please feel free to give them a try for yourself. But keep in mind that results can, and often times do, tend to vary from person to person. Sometimes for the better, and sometimes for the worse.


Open your mind, open your play-book, and just have fun no matter what you do! And please feel free to contact me at any time and let me know how it works out for you! I simply adore feed back!


Play Things
 Who wouldn't want to build up their toy box or get some new ideas for a great time? I'm game! Are you?

Lingerie
 What's a good time without the right attire? Let's dress up that closet. Or would it be dress down? I sometimes get the two confused!

Books
 Needs some how-to or discrete advice? Maybe a little steamy literature to heat things up? Got you covered, but only until you throw the blankets off!

Miscellaneous
 Let's mix it up a little. You never know what you might find in the back of my closet...

Got something you want to share? If it's worthy, I just might add it! Contact me and find out!!

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Products and Materials listed on my  blog are from third party and affiliate sites. They are simply suggestions and should only be used and purchased at your own discretion. While I sincerely hope they are helpful and/or useful to you, please understand that I cannot guarantee them. 

Sizzling Sessions

You're left alone, told merely to make yourself comfortable - a hint of mirth and suggestion in her tone as she slowly makes her way up the stairs. Glancing around, you catch sight of various whips, floggers, paddles and other instruments hanging around the room.

You quickly strip out of your clothes, and take a seat in the only chair positioned in the large room. Your heart flutters uncontrollably as you hear her footsteps returning down the steps. You have come here for one purpose... To see your deepest, most secret submissive desires fulfilled.

But now that it's time, you become unsure; that feeling of not knowing mingled with fear, embarassment and perhaps even some shame. Mistress Redfire smiles at you, as if she knows every thought and feeling coursing through your veins.

Without a word, without your realizing it, somehow your eyes are cloaked in darkness. You can hear her careful movements, and the air suddenly feels charged with a strange energy. All thoughts of retreat are replaced with a rising hunger.

A soft touch glides down your arm, barely noticable. You shiver as the sensation spreads throughout your entire body. Taking a trembling breath, your mind begins to race. She takes your hand, pulling you to your feet and guiding your steps forward.

A strange noise catches your attention. You turn your head towards it, only to be greeted with her whispered laughter. In so doing, she quickly slips something on your wrist and your arm is lifted high above your head. Before you have time to process what's going on, she catches your other hand, and binds it high and tight as well.

"Welcome," she whispers into your ear. "To my world."

When you contact me, keep in mind - 


     I am not looking for live-in slaves, and I am not interested in collaring you. I have many who beg at my feet for my ownership, so do not presume that you are so special that you will be "the one." I am a professional, not your lover. Please respect me and act accordingly. 


     I am not going to spend hours on the phone with you. This is not a "let's get to know one another on a personal level" social call. Yes, I'm sure you are a sweetheart or a loyal pet, but this is business. Don't take it personal, but I have more important things to do with my time than sit on the phone and chit-chat all day.


     This is not a game. Do not call me if you do not intend to schedule a session with me. You would not like it if someone came into your place of business with no intention of actually using your services, so do not show me the same disrespect and waste my time. If you are unsure, then say so up-front so I can give you the information you need to make an informed decision. I may be a Domina, but I am not here to be a form of distraction or amusement while you find someone to hold your hand through your life decisions. 


     Know that it's ok to not know what you want. I accept clients of all experience levels. If you're unsure what you're into, that's just fine with me. I enjoy a good round of cat and mouse to find out what you enjoy, and what you don't. However, it's not ok to spend an hour on the phone while you choke on your tongue, trying to figure out what to say to me. When you call, you had better be ready to schedule a session of exploration, or please don't waste my time. There are others out there that do want to play.


     Understand right now that what I do is supposed to be fun! I may love to take my whips to someone's hide, but I provide many services. From dressing up the sissy-boys and making them perform for me, to playing around with an obedient little puppy, and yes I've been known to care for a naughty little boy from time to time! Need to be punished? Need to be teased and tormented relentlessly and denied release? Do you just need to be bound up tight in agony and put into solitude for a spell? I am the one who takes control, but you choose the game... 


     Sessions are only scheduled by phone - not by email or text messages! If you're serious, expect to prove it. You will have to give your name, a phone number to be reached at, and you will be given a call back day/time before your scheduled time. You will be expected to make this call-back on time in order to keep your session appointment and to keep any discounted rates offered.


     Three strikes credibility offered. What that means is, after your third strike of not making your session and having to reschedule, you no longer have any credibility with me. In order for you to schedule any sessions with me after your third strike, you will be required to pay a higher session fee, and pay in advance before any session will be scheduled. If you fail to make a pre-paid session, you forfeit any payment made. No exceptions!


Rates:
     Flat rate inbound  
            - $200   Hourly
     Flat rate inbound  
            - $100   Half hour
     Out-bound  
            - $300 - $500  Hourly, depending on location
     Flat rate sissy-maids 
            - $100   Hourly
     Couple Rates  
            - $350   Hourly

     Ball Busting  
            - $100   Sessions typically run half hour

     Other Services  
            - $100+ Depending on service

*Not all services are provided on a specified amount of time.
*Outcalls are only provided during day time hours, between 8am and 7pm.
*Lunch time half hour specials available for working clients in the Westminster/Arvada area.
*Discount rates and specials offered
*Speedy discount appointments - if you accept and arrive at the next available appointment offered

For more information and details, contact Mistress Redfire!


*Mistress Redfire is now accepting new clients: male, female & instructing couples. 
Contact misstress_redfire@yahoo.com or text/call 720-474-0042 for further details.


**All services are strictly confidential and professional and do not entail any activities of a sexual nature. 


By contacting Mistress Redfire, you declare that you are not associated or affiliated with any law enforcement agency, and that in so doing, you are not acting on their behalf. To do so is considered entrapment, and is an insult to the professional nature of all services provided.

Power of Brainwaves

I have often said, and heard it myself, that the largest sexual organ in the human body is the brain. With it, you can not only create the perfect circumstances with which to torment someone mercilessly, but also keep them on the edge of such intense pleasure they will be begging and pleading that they can endure no more. Once you get inside someone's head, the ultimate power truly is at your fingertips.

The brain is the doorway to everyone's sexuality. It is where their fantasies are not only born, but fueled and left to grow or die. They can choose to share them with whomever they choose, or keep them tucked safely away under lock and key. It is with the mind's eye that anyone can become what they desire. Whether it's only in their dreams, or if they allow those desires to slip out and extend into the physical world.

For these reasons, and more, I dance on the edge of reality and fantasy. Taking my own chances with the power of the mind's seduction, and I write my erotic stories. I tell pieces of what has been, what is to come, and whatever twisted little daydreams happen to tickle my fancy at the time. And I know that when I'm doing so, it is with the power of touching one's mind and having the same sensual effects as if I were really there, running my hands over the reader's body and whispering in their ear.

Their breathing shallows, and their pulse will race. Their blood warms with each word, each progressive thought that they read. Their arousal is as real as if they were before me, victim to my sadistic amusements or erotic desires. They squirm and close their eyes, feeling a hot need growing as they read. Tormented and teased, but wanting to continue on.

The power of the mind is an amazing thing.

And it holds true for so many things. It can enhance your ecstacy, and it can also hold you back. Because, if you're not into something for whatever reason, nothing is going to excite and arouse you. You can be watching the most amazingly erotic performance in the world, and be completely turned off of it. Why? Because in your head, you know that the performer is your kid sister.

Someone can be down on their knees, with incredible oral skills, moving their lips and tongue over your cock in ways you've never experienced before. And you? You're sitting there wishing they would just quit and go away. Why? Because they're another male, and you're 100% heterosexual.

But, it's not just sexual, is it? The mind plays it's role in everything. It controls every aspect of our lives. In who we're attracted to, the friends we keep, the way we dress, how we carry ourselves, the jobs we work and how well we perform them.

I have always believed this, and made sure that everyone I've taught over the years was completely aware of how powerful the mind's influence was over everything we say and do. In fact, the first thing anyone I teach is required to do is to forget what they think they know, so that they can be receptive to what it is that's inside of themselves. To be free to embrace what it is that's always been inside themselves without any restrictions put on them by outside influences.

So, imagine my surprise when I came across the Audio Brainwave Stimulation Store earlier today!

Now, I certainly don't expect that you're going to take all of the recordings seriously. Now, bear with me here. I understand that Out of Body Experience, Past Life Regression, Astral Projection...Let's be realistic here. Some people believe, and some don't. Not everything is for everyone. Just, hear me out for a minute.

These MP3's are based on audio brainwave acoustics. There are alot here that are worth looking into. Relaxation, Energy, Tantric (that's sexual for those who don't know!), Meditation, and even Sleep!

Here's the best part. I signed up for their newsletter and got to download one of their MP3's. Not a sample, but an entire hour long MP3. The one they gave me was their sleep helper. Which, let me tell you, is something I actually did need help with. Couldn't we all use better rest? Then, I was able to listen to samples of their other MP3's.

Coming from someone who's spent years getting into other people's heads, this is definitely something I highly recommend. Just give it a try. What have you got to lose?

What have you got to gain?

As for me? I'm finally getting sleep. Oh, and I also recommend Deep Meditation for those of you who need to find your center, and I'm rather partial to the Tantra!